I've been on my own for two years, and it has been an
interesting journey. What I found is that the best people to date are the folks
who just got out of a marriage, and are recently divorced or separated. This is
contrary to conventional wisdom, but I believe it to be true.
Why?
These folks have had enough of a bad relationship and are
ready to try the next big thing, whether that is serial dating or a full-on
relationship. They are looking for fun, something lite and breezy, which
happens to be exactly what I'm looking for. Might be long-term or it might not
be. Neither of us cares. We just move forward and see where it goes.
This is how it used to be, no? You know, back in the good
old days of dating (however you define that time period).
But then what happens?
Ah, this is the critical part.
